Wednesday, January 23, 2013

POETIC RESULTS


 
The family room was a mess on inauguration day.

 My two boys, still in their pajamas, were sprawled out half-watching the ceremonies on the TV. They were off from school, not because of the events in Washington, DC, but in observance of Martin Luther King Jr. Day. My oldest was on the couch designing a project for school on his computer. My youngest was on the carpet floor trying to turn a block of wood into a winning race car for next week’s Cub Scout Pinewood Derby.

The room was scattered with unfolded laundry, abandoned sports equipment, unread newspapers and stacks of video games.

“How can y’all think in this chaos?” I asked, stepping over shoes on my way to the kitchen. “Shouldn’t y’all volunteer and straighten up the room?”

“We don’t have time,” my youngest son answered.

I began to wash dishes in the next room, but I could hear the commentators and speeches well enough to rinse my soapy hands and dry them quickly if something interested me. I could move closer to the television in a flash. Dirty breakfast plates and juice glasses could wait.

I wanted to see President Barrack Obama take the oath of office on two Bibles – one that belonged to King and another that belonged to President Abraham Lincoln. I wanted to see what the First Lady Michelle Obama and her children were wearing. I wanted to see the gleam of flags and military uniforms and the sea of people on the National Mall as Kelly Clarkson, James Taylor and Beyonce provided patriotic background music. I wanted to be inspired.

I only allowed myself a few glimpses of the festivities. The rest of the time, my soapy hands did their monotonous work. I admired the blue skies over the backyards of the neighborhood outside my window. A pet dog escaped through its doggie door to bask in the sunshine. Steam flowed from someone’s vent as she did laundry. A plane rumbled overhead. I heard a car start. Perhaps another mom was running to the grocery store.

Then Richard Blanco began to recite his inaugural poem.

“Whoever is closest to the TV clicker, turn up the volume,” I shouted to my sons in the adjacent room.

Weeks earlier, while I was also washing dishes, I had listened to a story broadcast on the radio about the inaugural poet. As I wiped spoons and soup bowls clean, I had thought about what an honor it would be to read a poem at such an occasion.

As a society, we listen to sermons, speeches, songs and advertisements. But after moving past childhood nursery rhymes and Dr. Seuss, people rarely hear poetry read aloud.

The void does us a disservice.

Not all poetry is difficult to understand, as many of us believe after studying abstract or classical poems in middle school.

Billy Collins makes me laugh out loud when he reads “The Lanyard,” a humorous poem he wrote about a young boy who is making a gift for his mother at camp. And I can hear the music of a girl playing her flute by the North Carolina marsh when I read Peter Makuck’s “Fog Lifter.” King’s famous “I Have A Dream” speech also is poetic.

Words are extraordinary. Expressing oneself through poetry is a gift. Poets can lead men and women to action.

While Blanco started to recite “One Today,” all fell quiet. My oldest son quit pecking on his keyboard. My younger son stopped filing his block of wood. I, too, stepped away from my sink. We were “one” with millions of other people worldwide listening to a poet who wrote down his thoughts and presented his ideas quietly and eloquently, not with shouts or shock value. He didn’t make noise. He didn’t use crude language. He didn’t scold or blame.

He spoke poetically.

My worries about the messy house disappeared. My son’s school project deadline didn’t loom. My other son’s desire to win a race went idle.

For a moment, we paused and listened.

Halfway through the poem, my sons went back to their projects. But I listened until the last word was said, “together.”

My inspiration had come – not in the abbreviated form of a tweet, not in gossipy gloating or a snarky remark on Facebook, not in a pundit’s “got to fill every silence with something” chatter – but in the form of a poem.

Starting in the family room, I picked up a pair of shoes and took them to the closet. I put the unread newspapers in the magazine basket. I folded some of the laundry.

I asked my youngest son to put away the sports equipment and my oldest son to put away the video games.

Working together, we started to make the room look better.

“I thank you for your help today; the room’s now clean, let’s keep it that way,” I said and laughed at my rhyme.

“You’re very poetic,” my youngest son answered.

 --cawk

Wednesday, January 16, 2013


WINDOWS TO WRITE

On the way home from my son’s violin lesson each week, I have to make a left turn onto a road busy with evening rush hour traffic.

My son and I talk as I look for a safe opportunity to pull out. Sometimes I get distracted by our conversation, and I wait for a slow poke car when I could have gone easily on my way.

 “I missed my widow,” I’ll say disappointed. And we wait some more.

Yesterday, as I began to think about my New Year’s resolution in terms of writing goals, I realized my whole day is one big jumble of traffic.

My two main rush hours are in the morning, getting the kids off to school, and in the afternoon when they return. The rest of the day is unpredictable.

My usual route includes housework, errands, paperwork, cooking and laundry.

What if in the New Year I resolve to take a detour and occasionally meander down the writing path?

Obstacles exist. I can’t write when my sons practice their trumpets or need help with their homework. The dishes have to be washed, and dinner has to be made. I have to balance my checkbook and brush my teeth.

But within my daily routine, small windows occur in traffic when I can safely pull out and sit down to write.

I’ve made good use of some of these unobvious opportunities. I’ve written Haiku during my son’s music lessons or sitting in waiting rooms to see a doctor. I’ve pecked out blog pieces on my laptop while the clothes washer finishes its final cycle. I’ve written notes on napkins and menus after ordering meals or take-out in restaurants.

If I can map out plans to go to breakfast with my friends, play a game of tennis, attend a writer’s group meeting or finish a book I’m reading, why can’t I also make time to write between my rush hours a part of my itinerary?

Bumps in the road will occur if someone gets sick, I run out of milk, a library book gets lost or a tire goes flat.

But for 2013, I plan to carry a pen and notebook with me at all times, even in the house. Who knows what I characters I can create while waiting for my spaghetti to boil?

--cawk

Monday, January 7, 2013

5 New Year’s Resolutions for Writers

Happy New Year writers and readers from Logan Township, NJ and beyond! What have you resolved to do this year?

I wanted to share with you an article from Writers Digest that has really helped me in forming my own writing resolutions this year:

5 New Year’s Resolutions for Writers

These resolutions include: make time for writing; embrace your personal writing style; self-edit as you write; step outside your comfort zone; and call yourself a writer.

How will you do this year?

Also, while you are at it, check out my own new personal blog titled "365 Excuses." It's my own humorous look at my goals and the excuses that get in the way of fulfilling them. My latest blog entry titled I Am What I Do discusses my 2013 goal to DO more and stop thinking about doing!

Hope to see some of you at the next Just Write! meeting (another goal of mine!).